5 ways to say "no" to screens
Without just saying "no".
When your child asks for a new video game or app or device it can be hard to know what to say. Here are some suggestions when you want to say no or need more time to decide.
⭐️Wanting kids to have healthy relationships with games and screens means we have to help them determine what games are appropriate for them. Giving a blanket “no” without explanation doesn’t help.
🎮So if they ask for something new, walk them through your thought process as you decide. Does it have a rating? Show it to them and help them understand what it means.
🕹If you’re unsure, you can preview it and let kids know why it’s not available. This doesn’t mean it’s up for debate, but it helps model how to determine what media to choose.
👾I also think it’s important to bring clarity around the expense around games and devices for kids. Sometimes games are free but that doesn’t mean they’re good. Other times, games are expensive but may not be in the budget. Devices may seem like they cost one price, but actually come with recurring costs like data access. Helping kids understand this is a big life skill and incorporating gaming and their interests into budgeting conversations sets them up for success later in life.
What other ways do you discuss gaming content with your kids? Let me know in the comments.